天高云淡的日子

天秤,就是这样,喜或忧,都是淡淡的,却并不轻松。


齐絮 @ 2009-07-06 00:19

Q1:你的大名?
李婧菲

Q2:你认为什么才算是真正幸福?  
有满足感的时候

Q3:你们觉得友情重要还是爱情重要,为什么?
都重要。

Q4:你相信天长地久吗?  
嗯...大概可以天长地久地相处相守,要天长地久的爱情嘛,比较难...

Q5:你现在过得快乐么?
美国的农村都要把姑娘我无聊爆了...


Q6:如果有秘密.你真的会做到坦白的告诉对方吗?
不会...

Q7:喜欢小baby吗?
不喜欢!!!

Q8:觉得友情是永远的么?
如果不互相攀比的话,可以的

Q9:希望自己多大结婚?  
还没想好...30岁之前吧,尽量晚点,但是穿婚纱还得好看的时候

Q10:你会为TA做自己从来不会做的事情?
这是什么逻辑...

Q11:你觉得女生卷发好还是直发好?  
...看情况吧...这个问题太傻了...

Q12:最想去哪里旅游?
要看哪里有好吃的

Q13:一辈子都不会有忘记的事?
很多吧。这个问题也很傻。


Q14:如果爱一个人,是不是要拼命挽回TA?
不会。天要下雨呀~~~

Q15:看到天空你第一个想起什么?
蓝天白云真好看

Q16:你会爱TA一辈子么?  
看他能不能爱我一辈子吧~这个问题也很傻...

Q17:喜欢你的人和你喜欢的人,你会选哪个?
一个内疚一个辛苦,我选单身轻松。

Q18:你会以何种方式表现你对他(她)的爱?
心里怎么想就怎么做呗...没什么刻意的方式...

Q19:如果看到自己最爱的人熟睡在你面前你会做什么?  
都睡啦也没人陪我玩啦,就自己去一边看小说上网了呗~

Q20:如果你想痛扁一个人,你希望那个人是?
某牛...

Q21:你后悔过自己的决定?  
经常!大吃了一堆高热量零食之后...后悔吐了都...

Q22:现在最迷什么:?
小说 庆余年

Q23:你是好孩子吗?  
简直典范~~

Q24:觉得爱情和面包哪个重要?  
面包~

Q25:如果你失恋了你会怎么样?
失恋样呗...找人陪着吃喝玩乐...

Q26:如果你的BF(GF)经常不回家的话,你会怎样?  
闹闹闹

Q27:心煩的時候要怎麽辦哦?  
跟某牛讲咯~让他买好吃的咯~


Q28:你是个记仇的人吗?  
不算吧...

Q29:最爱的那个~离你有多远哈?
不远

Q30:你习惯左边还是右边?
右边

Q31:会大声说我爱你吧?
不会~但是我不介意听听,哈哈~~

Q32:你会把你最爱的一个人埋藏在心里,然后和别人恋爱吗?
不会...我没那么情圣...

Q33:如果你对爱情失望了你会怎么样
我觉得单身也挺好。
P.S:出这套题目的人,您的感情经历真曲折真悲伤...

Q34:你喜欢悲剧还是喜剧?  
喜剧。

Q35:我现在的最爱?  
我爹我娘

Q36:你累了的時候會做什么?
洗洗睡了~

Q37:如果可以重来还愿意现在的生活么?
...实在不想再在这种“如果”上浪费幻想和时间了...


Q38:你愿意不顾一切的追逐梦想吗? 即使失去一切。。。。
没...万一我的梦想就是拥有越多越好呢...

Q39:世界上最美的地方是哪里?  
...我们女工程师答不出这种文艺小青年的题目...

Q40:伤心的时候第一个想到的人是谁?
某牛

Q41:喜欢雨吗? 喜欢柠檬吗? 为什么?
都不喜欢...喜欢晴天不爱酸...

Q42:你在夜空看见飞机,会把它想成是会动的星星吗?
...我们女工程师...

Q43:你喜欢一个人但是你们是朋友,你会怎么做?
等他跟我表白咯~

Q44:有钱的时候没时间,有时间的时候没钱,想去旅行,怎么办?
休假咯~

Q45:你们会想尽一切办法和自己喜欢的人在一起么?
取决于在一起的成本有多高...

Q47:喜欢的人,你最想听TA给你说的一句话是?  
我给你买好吃的~

Q48:天使的翅膀是怎么装上去的?
...我不是女机械工程师...

Q49:觉得什么样的人才是最爱你的?
我开心他就开心,我不开心他就哄我开心

Q50:爱是什么
...我们女工程师...

Q51:你累吗?
...51道文艺青年题...哪能不累呢...

Q52:地震的时候你第一个给谁打的电话?
没经历过...但想必会打给父母

Q53:你相信生肖匹配吗?相信星座、命运吗?
说我好的我就相信...

Q54:家里人反对你们在一起怎么办?
那要看他们为什么反对呀...不过这个事上我爸妈听我的...

Q55:对我有什么意见?放心说 哈哈
要经常给我更新您的状况呀~

Q56:你的坏男/女友现在变好了  你还会相信他/她吗?
不会~

Q57: 人死了之后何去何从?
...我们女工程师...

Q58:
你为什么喜欢TA?
跟他在一起开心


鉴于我认识的多是工程师,就不点他们回答这套文艺题目了:)


—————————————幸福的分割线——————————————————

你是谁传给你这份问卷的:宁宁姐
你们认识多久呢:23年9个月
Ta是个怎样的人:特别好特别能干
你与TA的关系是:姐妹
ta的强项是:独立
你觉得TA的个性如何:很好


 
齐絮 @ 2009-06-23 02:37

Even there are enough lessons about it, nothing I learned from them.

I still can not be tough to girls...dont know whether because that teenager me treated other kids too bad...now I can tolerate almost all girls, whatever they did to me or to others.

However, their unfriendly behaviors or attitudes still make me uncomfortable. In other words, I feel  bad but unable to attack back. Facing girls, I trend to be the one who yield...

Damn this unnecessary, unpleasant and stupid character... 



 
齐絮 @ 2009-06-21 11:16

土豆炖牛肉。 嗯,我第一道煮来招待客人的菜。

某牛每天带去上班的午饭都是我提前准备好的。给他连吃了两个礼拜的三明治,虽然保证总是有火腿有培根的,他还是作无精打采状,嚷嚷太久没吃肉了...那些火腿和培根都要委屈死了...

于是烧了个土豆炖牛肉,给带了几天,结果居然被他一个同事看上了...反复地问那么香是什么吃的,最后自己邀请自己说“你请我去吃饭吧”...年轻小孩子就是爽快呀...

我们人也很厚道,就今天请他来吃饭了。我还拟了个菜单,结果牛同学大笔一挥:就是个普通同事,不用那么重视,再弄个土豆牛肉加个蔬菜,俩就够了!

肉煮了一大锅,米饭焖了一大锅,我估计这一顿之后我一个礼拜都不用给牛同学弄午饭了。

可是年轻小孩子就是饭量大呀...他足足吃了3大碗米饭,我往盘子里添了3次肉...最后那点米饭也就够某牛两天吃的了...

确定我菜没炒咸之后,我觉得这是一件给予我充分肯定的事~~


 
齐絮 @ 2009-06-18 20:41

I don’t mean to update my blog in my poor English…Just really boring in office…nothing to do but blog…

Since most of my colleagues are 40years or older American men, even they are quite active and talkative, it’s hard for me to join their topic: kids, car, golf…So I rarely chat with them in my shared time.

Therefore, I focus on my project. While, one day my boss dropped by and talked to me “the point of ur internship is not how much work u do, that will lower ur value; the meaning of ur internship is ur interaction and communication with others.” Er…OK…unbelievable, my boss told me how much work I do doesn’t matter…He is too nice…

Even so, my mentor still tried to keep me busy. Plus the software is totally new for me, I have to spend a lot of time on it, that made me feel myself quite slow…so I speed up. As a result, my mentor said “u work so quickly that I don’t have new task for you”… OK, I would like to take it as praise…

Actually, we are a little stuck on our project. Before the meeting with our data resource, when is on this Friday, nothing I can do. The best part is, company starts blocking all kinds of entertaining websites, such as facebook, xiaonei, youtube, even my dear newsmth…damn…I can only go to news163 or sina. Em, I can also check my gmail, but the function of chat with friends is also turned off…horrible…

Couple days ago, I cried badly. Sounds pitiable?  In fact, that’s a absurd and stupid story…I watched a Taiwan show with Niu, which was about pretty girls with perfect legs. After that, we talked about beauty a little bit. I asked him “how do I look?” Niu said “Not bad.”

Then, I cried…for the “not bad”…

Not really because his comment “not bad”. I just felt sad because I knew my youth is leaving me, further and further, faster and faster. 24 years old is “not bad”, I agree. But still, the age when u should start adding “anti-aging essence” in ur skincare; the age ur “FaLing” wrinkle is coming out; the age u feel unable to stand too late at night. To be honest, I am afraid of that.

While, it isn’t the most important. The reason drove me to cry, is I am not satisfied with the first year spent in U.S. My studying abroad brought unexpected financial burden for my parents, although they can afford it, I hope they feel less pressure. So, I work in café for the poor pay, rarely buy great brand skin car, never bought new clothes in the past year ( Niu bought me one). Working in the café required me to wear the ugly uniform every day…the ugly uniform, plus the weird hair style caused by the uniform hat, plus the oily skin coming from the café…I just looked “terrific”…

In the spring 09, it’s better. I don’t have to work in café so often, and get more pay. But the whole long winter gave me extra 10pounds weight… I am a little picky about weight…so I am more obsessed with cals than organizing myself.

I knew all my complain were not about others,  are about myself. But still, when Niu said "Not bad", it seems all my this kind of negative feeling got varified: He used to think me as a "pretty pretty girl", not a "not bad girl". Yes, I do become less pretty, less adorable. Perhaps I am not the girl I like any more.

Finally, the cry happened.

Poor Niu, he thought his "no comment" was just joking, and I cried because an existing depression which was under control in the past days, suddenly burst.----Actually,  the only reason was I was scaried by the thought of "not pretty any more"...so absurd...While, he was very sweet and gentle, holding me in his arm firmly, saying sweet and soft words to me. After the more than 10mins crying, he fetched snack, water and everything I want to me. 

em...I am gonna to a meeting now...


 
齐絮 @ 2009-06-09 21:02

早起来狂风暴雨电闪雷鸣...非常勉强的起床洗漱准备早饭...

刚听到微波炉叮的一声——早饭才弄好——带我上班的人就打电话来了。很郁闷地想:为啥今天这么早,早饭都没吃就来接了Sad

结果那家伙说哎呀,我车的什么什么零件坏掉啦,今天就不能带你去上班啦,我今天就在家办公啦,那你怎么办呐?

ft...我昨天又没带工作的笔记本回来,手头啥数据也没有...也只好说,没事没事,我也在家办公好了~没关系的~

于是,于是吃了早饭又上楼来,给各个老板发邮件解释说今天要在家工作了。好在各老板都特别体谅...

于是也就有时间更新这里了呀!平时上班时候有时间也没有中文输入法,觉得自己英文烂也不好意思写英文日志,回家净玩了也不想写~

上班也两个星期了,同事们人都非常非常好,唯一让我苦恼的就是都以中老年美国男为主...搞得我完全无法融入同事们的交流...你们说,当他们讨论在孩子 毕业典礼上的dady dance的时候,我能说什么...唯一一个28岁的香港女生,偏偏老公也在同一个公司上班...我就不要非作电灯泡不可了~

上班和回家的路上,是我和两个美国男生一个印度男生,话题非常的男性化,比如车,比如各种球类比赛,比如喝酒,比如嗑药...再加上震耳的音乐声...

跟同事们打了一次排球,还很好玩,除了我们队打得非常烂,而我更是第一次打排球烂得无法想象...

两个星期的工作后心态平和了不少,回想当时拿到offer的兴奋,顿时觉得自己眼皮子真浅...


 
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